Collier Veterans Mentors Group
Veterans Helping Veterans
WHAT MENTORS DO
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Stress compliance with the court “rules”
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Emphasize this is a second chance and noncompliance has serious consequences
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Emphasize that honesty to all is of critical importance
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Be a friend, ally, perhaps coach and build trust through confidentiality
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Contact regularly-initially at court appearances; follow up calls, texts, and emails
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Relate as a Vet, but try to find a common interest
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Meet outside of court as makes sense: coffee, perhaps lunch, Veterans activities, etc
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Discuss job search process, community service work, and court directed activities
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Remind (not monitor) veterans of appointments
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Listen for “needs”
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Openly communicate, encourage, listen to issues, but bring reality as required
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Has patience: it may take a long time to build a relationship
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Relate relevant issues and needs to the Mentor Coordinator, Case Manager and/or VJO
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Contact case manager/police if made aware of a dangerous situation.